Simple Love
This is in the post below, but I want to emphasize it:
Simplicity within loving relationship means we simply love each other. I know that I love you, and I am completely confident that you love me – but this does not mean that I act perfectly all the time. When the person I love says Ouch! , then I simply say I am sorry that I did whatever it was. Even if there is no Ouch! – if I suspect that I might have acted hurtfully in some way – I say I am sorry. I say this because I know that the person I love tries not to be too sensitive to my occasional heavy-handedness. They make this effort because they love me, and I feel naturally moved to display appreciation because of that. Living in this way does not necessitate fear or ‘second guessing’. Conceptual complexity is unnecessary in the moment of being in love. Conceptual complexity prohibits perception of the ambiance of loving warmth.
This can apply to any relationship - it can represent the openness in which you engage everyone.
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